Vibrators

Picking a vibrator can feel a bit daunting when there are hundreds to choose from. What's the difference between a bullet and a wand? Do you need one that connects to an app? Is silicone actually better than other materials? We get asked these questions all the time, so we've put together a proper guide to help you figure out what's right for you.

Everything on this page is made from body-safe materials. No jelly, no phthalates, no mystery plastics. We stock brands like Satisfyer, Bodywand, Womanizer, ROMP, Doc Johnson, and Inty because they have solid track records for quality and safety.

At its simplest, a vibrator is a device with a motor that produces vibrations for sexual pleasure. That covers everything from a tiny bullet the size of a lipstick to a full-sized wand massager. Some are built for external clitoral stimulation, others go inside for G-spot or prostate massage, and plenty do both at once.

The technology has come a long way. Early vibrators (which first appeared in the late 1800s, marketed as medical devices of all things) were basic single-speed affairs. These days you'll find brushless motors, USB charging, waterproof designs rated to IPX7, app control via Bluetooth, and air-pulse technology that mimics the feeling of oral sex without any direct contact. It's a lot to take in, but don't worry. You don't need the fanciest features to have a great experience.

And vibrators absolutely aren't just for women. Vibrating cock rings, prostate massagers, and wand vibrators are used and enjoyed by people of all genders and orientations. The basic principle is the same: vibration increases blood flow, heightens sensitivity, and makes orgasms easier to reach.

Honestly? However feels good. But if you're just getting started, a few tips can make things a lot more enjoyable.

Start on the lowest speed. Most vibrators have multiple settings. Start gentle and turn it up as you get used to the sensation. You might be surprised how little you actually need, or you might want all the power the toy can give you. Both are completely normal.

Use lube. Even if you think you don't need it, water-based lubricant makes pretty much every vibrator feel better. It reduces friction and lets the toy glide rather than drag across skin. One thing to watch: don't use silicone-based lube with silicone toys, because it can damage the surface over time.

Try it in different places. The clitoris is the obvious starting point for external vibrators (over 8,000 nerve endings in one small area), but don't stop there. Inner thighs, nipples, the perineum, the entrance of the vagina. Lots of people find sensitive spots they didn't know about.

For internal vibrators, go slowly and let your body relax. G-spot vibrators have a curved tip that's designed to press against the front vaginal wall, roughly 2 to 3 inches inside. The tissue there feels slightly different, a bit ridged, and when you find it you'll usually know.

During sex, small toys like bullets and finger vibrators are brilliant. They're compact enough to use during penetration without getting in the way, and most couples find they make things better for both people.

This is the unsexy bit, but it matters. Bacteria and lube residue build up on the surface of any toy that doesn't get cleaned, and using a dirty vibrator can lead to infections like bacterial vaginosis or UTIs. Not fun.

The good news is that cleaning is easy. Warm water and mild, unscented soap will do the job for most vibrators. If your toy is fully waterproof (look for IPX7 in the product specs), rinse it under the tap. If it isn't waterproof, wipe it down with a damp, soapy cloth and keep water away from the charging port.

You can buy dedicated toy cleaners, but honestly soap and water does the same thing. The important bit is doing it every single time, before and after use.

Once it's clean, dry it properly with a lint-free cloth and store it in its pouch or box. Try not to store different toys loose in the same drawer touching each other, because some materials (particularly silicone and TPE) can react and degrade.

We know, we know. A sex toy shop telling you vibrators are great. But the research genuinely backs this up. A large study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women who used vibrators reported better arousal, more natural lubrication, and higher overall sexual satisfaction than those who didn't.

Orgasms become more accessible. A lot of women find it hard to orgasm from penetration alone. That's not a problem to fix. It's just anatomy. The clitoris has more nerve endings than any other part of the body, and vibrators deliver the kind of consistent, targeted stimulation that often makes the difference.

You learn what you like. Using a vibrator on your own is one of the best ways to figure out what actually feels good, which makes it much easier to tell a partner what works for you. That conversation gets a lot simpler when you already know the answer.

Stress and sleep. Orgasms release oxytocin and endorphins while bringing cortisol levels down. The physical relaxation afterwards genuinely helps some people fall asleep faster. It's not a cure for insomnia, but it's a lot more fun than counting sheep.

Better sex with a partner. Couples who bring toys into the bedroom tend to report feeling more connected, not less. It opens up a conversation about pleasure that a lot of people have never really had, and that openness carries over into other parts of the relationship too. A study from Chapman University confirmed this: couples who explore new forms of intimacy together report stronger long-term satisfaction.

Pick the right type for what you enjoy. If clitoral stimulation is your thing, look at bullets, wands, or air-pulse toys. If you prefer penetration, G-spot vibrators are designed with exactly the right curve. If you like both at the same time, that's what rabbit vibrators were invented for. Not sure yet? A bullet or small wand is the safest first purchase because you can use them just about anywhere on the body.

Build up slowly. Jumping straight to the highest setting is tempting, but you'll usually get a stronger orgasm if you let arousal build first. Start low, take your time, and consider edging (getting close, then backing off) if you want a more intense finish.

Charge it fully first. Rechargeable vibrators need 1 to 2 hours for a full charge, and a half-charged motor gives you a weaker experience. Not the best first impression of a new toy.

Try the patterns. Most vibrators come with pulsing, escalating, and wave modes alongside steady vibration. They feel quite different from each other, and switching between them during a session stops you getting used to one sensation.

The jump from a £10 vibrator to a £35 one is usually worth every penny. Better materials, quieter motor, USB charging instead of fiddly batteries, and waterproofing that actually works. That middle price range is where most of our customers find the sweet spot.

Once you get above £60 or so, you're paying more for features like app connectivity, automatic pressure sensors, and premium packaging. Those extras are nice to have, but they won't necessarily give you a better orgasm than a well-made £30 bullet vibrator. They might, of course, but it's not guaranteed.

What really matters at any price: body-safe materials (medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel), enough motor power for your preferences, and a brand that stands behind its products. We don't stock anything that cuts corners on safety, regardless of the price tag.

Our advice if you're buying your first vibrator? Spend somewhere between £20 and £40. That gets you something genuinely good without a big financial commitment. Once you know what kind of stimulation you like, you can always trade up later.